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Kisha Gallagher is the author of the BEKY Book: The Biblical New Moon: A Guide for Celebrating, and the website, Grace in Torah, a ministry devoted to the Gospel of Yeshua, the moedim (feasts), marital roles, and general Bible study. Many lives are touched through her website, conference engagements, and weekly small groups. Kisha is a Creation Gospel trainer and a former cohost on Hebrew Nation Radio’s Morning Show, Renewed. She is a programmer on MyReviveTV (Hebraic Roots Network). Kisha resides near the Smoky Mountains with her husband and sons. She can be contacted at kisha@graceintorah.net

A Voice is Heard in Ramah Part I

Thus says Adonai: “A voice is heard in Ramah—lamentation and bitter weeping—Rachel weeping for her children, refusing to be comforted for her children, because they are no more.” (Jeremiah 31:15, TLV)

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Today, Cheshvan 11th, is the yahrtzeit (remembrance of the day of one’s passing) of the matriarch Rachel. Whether or not Rachel actually passed on this date, the prophetic significance that Rachel represents is deeply tied into the themes of the eighth month, often dubbed the Month for Messiah. The eighth month is the only one that doesn’t have any Biblical or traditional holidays, but the new beginning significance of the number eight alludes to a future time when Messiah will inaugurate the third Temple. The first Temple was completed in the eighth month (1 Kings 6:38), but King Solomon waited almost an entire year later to dedicate it in the seventh month alongside the festival of Sukkot (1 Kings 8).

The Tabernacle and the Temple represent the indwelling Presence of Adonai, His people, and the Messiah – God tabernacling among, with, and in His people.[1] Jewish commentators glean this truth from Exodus 25:8,“And let them make a sanctuary for Me, that I may dwell in their midst. (LITV)” They see the eighth month as being reserved for the time of Messiah and His dedication of the third Temple. The exile will finally be over when Mashiach returns and restores all things (Acts 3:21). But what does any of this have to do with Rachel?

Joseph is arguably the most notable son of Jacob, as he was chosen to save the entire family (and future) of Israel, which prophetically figured the future salvation work of Yeshua. In fact, there numerous parallels between the lives of Joseph and Yeshua. Because of this, there is a common belief in Judaism that there is a Messiah ben (son of) Joseph and a Messiah ben David, the former coming as a suffering servant, and the latter as a conquering king. Christians have a similar understanding in the first and second coming of Messiah.

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Rachel’s first born son Joseph was mockingly called the Ba’al HaChalomot, Master of Dreams, by his brothers. And due to their jealous animosity, Joseph became the first exile of Israel. This little nugget is important to remember. When Joseph was a young man, God gave him two dreams foretelling how in the future, he would rule over his brothers. In the first dream, Joseph and his brothers were symbolized by sheaves of wheat. When Joseph recounted the dream to his brothers, it ticked them off because they understood clearly what the dream meant. In his second dream, the sun, moon, and eleven stars bowed down to Joseph. Jacob understood that he was the sun, Rachel was the moon, and Joseph’s brothers were the stars. These dreams were part of the reason his brothers were envious of him. Soon afterwards, Jacob sent Joseph to check on his brothers while they were out shepherding sheep, and this is when they conspired at first to kill Joseph, but ended up putting him into a pit. Jacob, upon seeing the bloodied coat of Joseph that his brother’s used to deceive him, went into great mourning.

Jacob tore his clothing and put on sackcloth and mourned for his son many days. All his sons got up along with all his daughters to console him, but he refused to be comforted. He said, “For I will go down to Sheol to my son, mourning.” So his father kept weeping for him.” (Genesis 37:34-35, TLV)

Notice how the prophet Jeremiah sees Rachel doing the same thing, but not just for Joseph. She laments and weeps for his many descendants who had also been sent into exile.

Thus says Adonai: “A voice is heard in Ramah—lamentation and bitter weeping—Rachel weeping for her children, refusing to be comforted for her children, because they are no more.” (Jeremiah 31:15, TLV)

But there is a promise and exhortation that Adonai gives to Rachel.

Thus says Adonai: “Restrain your voice from weeping and your eyes from tears. For your work will be rewarded”—it is declaration of Adonai—“when they will return from the land of the enemy. So there is hope for your future”—it is declaration of Adonai—“when your children will return to their own territory.” (Jeremiah 31:16-17, TLV)

In Judaism, Cheshvan 11th has become a type of Jewish Mother’s Day. In a sense, all mother’s suffer pain and toil to birth and raise children. But, I find this Jewish Mother’s Day especially poignant, since there are so many grieving mothers in Israel due to the atrocious attacks of Hamas. Grace in Torah firmly stands with Israel and grieves with the many that have lost family and friends. I was in the Land on Simchat Torah when war broke out (more on that in Part II). I have a tiny inkling of what our Jewish brothers and sisters endure as they protect and fight for their inheritance. And whether Christians realize it or not, the Land IS one of the promises of the New Covenant, which goes back to the Covenant with Abraham.[2]

Mother Rachel’s Tears

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Unlike the other matriarchs and patriarchs, Rachel was not buried in Hebron at Machpelah. She is separated or exiled from Hebron and Machpelah (Cave of the Couples) despite it not being far from where she died. Why? If Rachel was the wife Jacob had intended to marry from the beginning, and she was the one he loved the most, why would she be buried on the side of road and not in the family grave site? Does this seem unnatural to you? In Jewish tradition, caring for the dead is the highest form of chesed, lovingkindness, because a dead person has no capability of returning the favor or paying one back. Caring for their body is a completely selfless act. If Jacob loved her so much, we must ask why she was buried where she was.

Perhaps Jacob knew something that we don’t easily see. God certainly chose Rachel, even after her death, to symbolize his mourning and deep desire for His wayward children to return to Him. Maybe Adonai allowed Jacob to see a glimpse of this, or maybe through Jacob’s grief He ensured that Rachel’s burial would be different. Rachel experienced “hard labor” and died giving birth to the final son of Jacob, Benjamin, on the Way to Ephrath (fruitfulness) near Bethlehem, the House of Bread. She called him Ben-oni, Son of My Sorrows, and Jacob changed his name to Ben-yamim, Son of my Right Hand. When Israel was finally able to enter the Promised Land, it occurred in the territory of Benjamin, who was the only son of Israel born in the Land.

Ema Rachel was “separated by her burial.” Why was she not “gathered to her people”? One might conclude that her incident of hiding her father’s idols under her saddle and saying she was on her “moon” cycle earned her death and separation, even in burial. If that is the case, Adonai still chose her to prophetically represent His deep longing for His wayward children to come home – children who had forsaken Him for the idols of their neighbors. Through the mouth of Jeremiah, Adonai proclaimed:

“Set up for yourself roadmarks, place for yourself guideposts; direct your mind to the highway, the way by which you went. Return, O virgin of Israel, return to these your cities. How long will you go here and there, O faithless daughter? For the LORD has created a new thing in the earth—A woman will encompass a man.” (Jeremiah 31:21-22, NASB)

Jeremiah spoke to people who were about to experience the judgment of Adonai that would result in their exile. Rachel’s tomb marks the place where the Babylonians marched the captives from the Land. But it is also the path one must take upon returning home. Separation, then gathering, renewal, and new life.

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If one counts from the first day of the year (Tishrei 1) or Rosh Hashanah to Cheshvan 11, it equals forty-one. Forty-one is also the numerical value of אם (Em), which means “mother.” In Jeremiah, Mother Rachel prophetically weeps for her children who are “no more.” We also read this account in the haftarah portion on the second day of Rosh Hashanah (Jeremiah 31:1-19).

“At that time,” declares the LORD, “I will be the God of all the families of Israel, and they shall be My people.” (Jeremiah 31:1, NASB)


With weeping they will come, and by supplication I will lead them; I will make them walk by streams of waters, on a straight path in which they will not stumble; for I am a father to Israel, and Ephraim is My firstborn.” (Jeremiah 31:9, NASB)

Weeping and mourning turning to laughter and rejoicing prophetically figures the restoration of all things. This is the theme of Jeremiah 31, which contains the prophecy of the new covenant. The Shabbat and festival Psalm read during the Birkat haMazon (Blessing After Meals) is Psalm 126. When you are full and satisfied (Dt. 8:10), remember that your work, toil, and pain will be rewarded. He is faithful. Returning exiles are “like dreamers,” who weep like mama Rachel, carrying their bags of seed. But they will return carrying their sheaves with them. They will rejoice in Simchat Torah. And the sheaves of Joseph’s dream will bow down to their Savior, but they won’t be alone. The first fruits guarantee that the whole field, the full harvest, is absolutely complete (Ezekiel 37:15-28, John 3:16, Romans 11).

Psalms 126:1-6 (NASB)

1 A Song of Ascents. When the LORD brought back the captive ones of Zion, we were like those who dream.

2 Then our mouth was filled with laughter and our tongue with joyful shouting; then they said among the nations, “The LORD has done great things for them.”

3 The LORD has done great things for us; we are glad.

4 Restore our captivity, O LORD, as the streams in the South.

5 Those who sow in tears shall reap with joyful shouting.

6 He who goes to and fro weeping, carrying his bag of seed, shall indeed come again with a shout of joy, bringing his sheaves with him.

The pattern of our complete redemption has been spoken from the Beginning. It will involve sorrow and trouble and hard birth pangs, but it will result with a celebration of the Son of the Right Hand, and great JOY.

Kever Rachel – Rachel’s Tomb

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In 2018, I had the opportunity to visit Kever Rachel (Rachel’s Tomb) near Bethlehem. Rachel means a “ewe,” a sheep, and yet she was the FIRST woman shepherdess mentioned in the Bible. Shepherds guard, protect, lead, water, and feed the flock – something the resurrected Messiah said was expected from those that love Him (John 21).

Prophetically, Rachel symbolizes the Shekinah, the Divine Indwelling Presence[3], the Holy Spirit, Who, as Lady Wisdom, calls out to the wayward, lost, exiled, and bound children of Adonai. His desire is to release the prisoners, set the captives free, and bind up the broken hearted (Is. 61). And like a Mother Bird, He longs to gather them under His Wings. Rachel’s irregular burial “on the Way,” and her great pain, toil, and even death resulted with the last son, the Son of the Right Hand, who completed the House of Israel. This pattern points the Way back from the exile and to the restoration of all things (Acts 3:19-21).

Through the imagery of Rachel, God shows us labor pain, birth, death, wailing, mourning, and also great hope for the future. This is life in a nutshell. Rachel weeps, but she will be restored. Rather than being a symbol for death and separation, she pictures new life, repentance, reconciliation, and restoration. She is also connected to dreams and dreamers, the Bat Kol, Voice of God, the future, great joy, seeds growing into sheaves, laughter, prophecy, and Messiah. Most succinctly, she figures exile, redemption, and restoration. This story is told over and over through her life and in the lives of her children.

Rachel’s Tomb is considered the third most holy site in Israel. It once looked more like the first image in the photos below. Today, there is a winding paved road flanked by 50 foot concrete walls, dotted with IDF guard stations, that leads to the structure. These measures are in place to protect pilgrims from terror attacks from nearby Bethlehem, now an Arab city in the “West Bank.” The only indication that Rachel’s tomb looks anything like it did in the past, before all the security
measures were built, is the interior limestone floors, walls, and domed ceiling.

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The winding drive was depressing and the entrance looked more prison like than a “holy” space. As we approached the entrance, the oppression was thick and heavy. It wasn’t what I expected. As I walked through the door, my sunglasses broke and fell off my face. I caught them in my hand as I crossed the threshold. Later, I would find that to be the perfect metaphor for my experience. Sometimes, we must remove the artificial lenses we have placed over our eyes because it is dimming our vision and blocking “the light.”

When I looked around, I was disappointed that there was nothing overtly “spiritual” about the place. Adonai had built Rachel up so strongly in my heart that I expected her to (figuratively) meet me there. But alas, all I sensed was heaviness, like the concrete barriers that surrounded everything around us. The men and women were separated, as is normal in Orthodox Jewish spaces. Both sides had many there praying, some very loudly, with wails reminiscent of Rachel weeping for her children. I wondered how many were there because they had lost children due to terror attacks, war, or some other tragedy, or who were dealing with the pain of barrenness. I took some photos and then prayed through my disappointment. “Abba, please show me what is here. I want to see.”

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As I opened my eyes after praying, I felt the Holy Spirit, and looked again. While in the natural everything was the same, I began to see the space with new eyes. The Holy Spirit had removed my natural lenses. The ancient limestone walls, shelves lined with prayer books, and the people remained. But, as I listened to the din of prayer by all those visiting, I noticed something that I failed to see before.

Suddenly, it was all very apparent. First, there were so many women! So many PREGNANT women! Large bellies full of life, and the laughter and cries of little children echoing against the golden limestone walls. Whispered prayers, chanted prayers, and even loud wailing pleas clouded the air and created an incense that I couldn’t smell with my natural senses. It all coalesced into a spirit-filled cacophony that I was ashamed that I couldn’t detect previously.

I scanned the room and noticed pews filled with old women, long past child rearing years, who sat there praying for their children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. Their plain clothes, covered heads, and wrinkled faces were like the epitome of every storybook old woman I’ve ever read about. Generations were represented in that place, and they all knew what and WHO “Rachel” represented. But, I was just opening my eyes like one of the newborns.

One particular old lady sat in the back. My mentor slowly walked towards me at that point and said, “If you give her some shekels, she will bless you.” I have no idea how she knew this would be the case, but already in awe of seeing with new eyes, I did what she suggested. I carefully made my way to the old woman while riffling through my pocket for coins. I reached out to the old Jewess and handed her some shekels. She looked up at me, not with contempt, judgment, or confusion (I am obviously of gentile descent), but with the tenderness of a loving mother or grandmother. She gently grabbed my hand and gave me a blessing in Hebrew. Though I could only make out a few words, my spirit resonated with them and I knew I had received a great honor. Then to my surprise, that old Jewess kissed the back of my hand with the softest lips I’ve ever felt. It was as if ema Rachel had kissed me herself. I was undone.

Overwhelmed, I slowly walked away, choked up by the flood of feeling and images that raced through my mind. I whispered to Adonai, “I get it! I see!


Rachel is barren wombs who are now full of fruit.[4] She is idol worshipers turned and transformed into the image of Messiah.[5] She represents sacrifice and intercessory prayer. New life. Old life. Just LIFE. Cries, wails, despair and prayers, are exchanged for laughter and shouts of joy that echo throughout the centuries. Rachel died on the Way to Ephrat, fruitfulness. She is very near to the House of Bread – Bethlehem, the place the True Bread from Heaven was born. There is a reason she is not resting in Machpelah with the other patriarchs and matriarchs. She remains with her children in the exile, in their punishment and throughout their separation, calling loudly to them, crying for them to return.

 

Rachel exudes the love of our Father, whose holiness and righteousness requires justice; but like any good parent, hates to see us suffer all the same. And all the while, despite our treachery, unfaithfulness, and disrespect, His plan is to bring Israel back into His Bosom. And not just Israel, but the nations with them.[6] The prophets all proclaim this. The guilty will not go unpunished, and yet the chesed and mercy of Adonai abounds towards His people (Ex 34, Is. 54:8).

One night, before visiting Rachel’s Tomb, I had a very lucid dream about her. She was gripping metal birthing bars and was in the throes of labor. There were a few of us there who were like midwives and support. As her pains grew more intense, great drops of sweat ran down her face, thoroughly soaking her dark hair and clothing. As she screamed and pushed, her face would change. With one contraction she would be a woman, then the face of man, then the face of child. Many, many faces of all races and ages rippled to life as she travailed. Finally, she gave birth to a son, and he was half grown, the age of 7 or 8.

The dream was so real and graphic that I woke up in shock. It was later that I realized that Rachel is still giving birth, because that is what the Holy Spirit does, He grants us the spirit of repentance so we can accept Yeshua as our Messiah and Savior. Like Joseph’s multicolored tunic, they are from all walks of life and of all ages. He is the Savior of the whole world and He travails for us. And like her, we are meant to travail for the Kingdom too. Paul said, “My little children, for whom I am again in the pain of childbirth until Christ is formed in you,” (Galatians 4:19, NRSV)

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The “faces” are those who have grown from seeds scattered in exile among the nations. Our Father’s Word comes to pass even in our punishment for disobedience.[7] The harvest is ready, sheaves are being bound (for the LORD), and they will all bow down to him, and every tongue will confess. Some see the bloodied tunic and assume Joseph is “no more,” that the wild beasts of the world have torn him to pieces. They refuse to be comforted like Jacob and Rachel. They are wrong. He lives, even in Egypt, a place of exile.

If you want to visit Rachel, know that the Way is narrow. It’s a tight place. A protected, restricted, and guarded path. It’s not easy to get there. Yet, Her birth pangs are steadily coming. Contraction after contraction. Wave after wave. Great streams of sweat and tears mar her face. But her work WILL be rewarded! And so will yours, son or daughter of Rachel!

In 2016, before my first trip to Israel,  I “just so happened” to receive the following audio teaching from The Land of Israel (more about them and Arugot Farm in Part II). When Rabbi Katz sang the song that returning exiles, (Jews making Aliyah), are taught, I ugly cried, but it was a cry of joy and wonderment. I hope you will take the time to listen to this short message.

Can you hear Rachel calling for you to come home? Do you have ears to hear? She’s not in Hebron. She is not in Machpelah. She is on the Way waiting for you… Keep your eyes from weeping. Ask for new lenses. Adonai will provide them, even in the gloom and darkness of judgment and war.

Part II

PRAYER

Join me in prayer for Israel, Jerusalem, and all the men, women, and children who are standing firm set on protecting their inheritance from Adonai. For all those lost in the darkness of exile, bondage, captivity, spiritual darkness, and confusion. For all of our children, both physical and spiritual, and for prodigals to return home. Pray for blind eyes to be pierced by the light of Messiah, the suffering Servant, like Joseph, Who gave everything, even His life for the sheep. For all those entrenched in idol worship, like Laban, and the ancient House of Israel (Ephraim). Pray for our enemies near and far who are entrapped by fear and strong delusion making them sell themselves and their children to corrupt governments believing they are free when they are shackled to false ideologies. Pray for the lives of the unborn and all babies that are destroyed to satisfy the desires of greed, selfishness, hatred, and fear for the future. Pray for those who are sick and suffering, in pain, or who are isolated, estranged, or rejected.

May Adonai heal our land and restore our captivity. May He unify us in His love. May we cry so loudly that the Egyptians hear it when Joseph reveals himself and reunites the family of God.

For all these we pray. We wail and weep and cry out to the Most High, and He hears our prayers.


[1] Psalm 27:4, John 2:21, Romans 8:9, 1 Corinthians 3:16-17; 6:19-20, 2 Corinthians 6:16, Ephesians 2:20-22, Revelation 21-22.

[2] Genesis 12:1-9; 15:1-21, Jeremiah 31:31-40, Ezekiel 11:16-21; 36:24-38.

[3] While the word Shekinah does not appear in the Bible, the concept of the (in)Dwelling Presence of God certainly is. The verbal root of shekinah is sha-khan (H7931) meaning to abide, dwell, tabernacle, and lodge. It has always been the desire and will of Adonai to dwell with and in His people. Yeshua told His followers “to abide” in Him, the True Vine (John 15). Shakhan is also the root of the word Tabernacle, Miskhan, the place where the Presence of Adonai dwelled among His people in the wilderness, and later in the Temple. “And let them make a sanctuary for Me, that I may dwell in their midst.” (Exodus 25:8, LITV) Like Christians, Jews understand that the Tabernacle and Temple mystically figures God’s people (1 Cor. 3:16-17). What dwells in the Tabernacle or Temple? The Spirit of Adonai. In Hebrew, Ruach (Spirit) is a feminine word. When personified, the Spirit is expressed in the feminine form. A Biblical example is Woman/Lady Wisdom in the Book of Proverbs, Who was with God at the Creation. Shekinah is a feminine noun meaning, the “Abiding/Dwelling One.” Dr. Ben Gigi, a Jewish Believer and Hebrew teacher, explains Shekinah here: https://hebrew.jerusalemprayerteam.org/shekinah-divine-presence/

[4] “Shout for joy, O barren one, you who have borne no child; break forth into joyful shouting and cry aloud, you who have not travailed; for the sons of the desolate one will be more numerous than the sons of the married woman,” says the LORD. “Enlarge the place of your tent; stretch out the curtains of your dwellings, spare not; lengthen your cords and strengthen your pegs. For you will spread abroad to the right and to the left. And your descendants will possess nations and will resettle the desolate cities.” (Isaiah 54:1-3, NASB)

[5] “Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God. Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.” (1 Corinthians 6:9-11, NASB)

[6] Genesis 17:6,16; 35:10-12 Psalm 67; 86:9, Isaiah 2:2-5; 11:10; 19:16-25; 49:6; 60:1-22, Jeremiah 16:19-21, Micah 4:1-5, Zechariah 8:20-23, Romans 11:25-36, Ephesians 3:1-13, Revelation 5:9; 14:6-7, etc.

[7] Isaiah 55:9-11 (NASB) “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways And My thoughts than your thoughts.

10 “For as the rain and the snow come down from heaven, And do not return there without watering the earth And making it bear and sprout, And furnishing seed to the sower and bread to the eater;

11 So will My word be which goes forth from My mouth; It will not return to Me empty, Without accomplishing what I desire, And without succeeding in the matter for which I sent it.

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The Seven Ushpizin of Sukkot

Chag Sameach dear Readers! Last year, after the Feast of Tabernacles, I wrote about the passing of a dear friend and my experience in Israel. I promised an article on the seven ushpizin (figurative guests/visitors) of one’s sukkah because a large part of what was so awesome, was:

“The Seven Shepherds” Painting by Kisha Gallagher 2018

how the Father tied this traditional theme with my sister to bring me comfort in a time of grief. Because of its length, I have chosen to post it in PDF format. Though it is lengthy, it is not meant to be read all at once. Start with the intro and the first day and then go from there. This article is designed to help with introspection as we sit in our sukkah and commune with the Father. I did not have time to include photos or graphics, as I am now on way back up to Jerusalem for the Feast.

I dedicate this devotional to the memory of my beloved friend, Landra Kerekes, on her Yahrzeit (anniversary of death). I love and miss you, and I know you are rejoicing with our King in Jerusalem above!

The Seven Ushpizin (PDF)

 

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The Unforgiving Servant

The vast mercy, grace, and abounding chesed (lovingkindness) of our Father and King culminates in His willingness to forgive. So, as recipients of His lavish love, why do we often prefer vengeance, pay back, and punishment when wrongs have been committed against us? The parable of the unforgiving servant demonstrates this truth perfectly; and yet, I wonder if we really can see just how much we resemble this servant in our attitudes towards others who have hurt, wronged, or insulted us.

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The more the Father has had me revisit this parable and other related passages, the more I am convicted when I look into the perfect law of liberty and see how distorted my reflection is in comparison to the Master. My nephesh (flesh) desires vindication, damages, and justice when I have been wronged, slighted, misunderstood, hurt, taken advantage of, misrepresented, slandered, wounded, stolen from, or even when I am simply offended. It feels like righteous anger, but is it?

When I think about what Messiah endured for lost, unrepentant, and even degenerate souls, my anger dissolves into a puddle of shame and conviction. Can I embody this kind of mercy, empathy, and forgiveness towards those who have deeply wounded me or one of my children? In my flesh, it is futile. But praise Adonai, we are given His Spirit, so the impossible IS possible. Hear the parable from the Literal Standard Version[1]:

Matthew 18:21-35 (LSV)

21 Then Peter having come near to Him, said, “Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him—until seven times?”

22 Jesus says to him, “I do not say to you until seven times, but until seventy times seven.

23 Because of this was the kingdom of the heavens likened to a man, a king, who willed to take reckoning with his servants,

24 and he having begun to take account, there was brought near to him one debtor of a myriad of talents,

25 and he having nothing to pay, his lord commanded him to be sold, and his wife, and the children, and all, whatever he had, and payment to be made.

26 The servant then, having fallen down, was prostrating to him, saying, Lord, have patience with me, and I will pay you all;

27 and the lord of that servant having been moved with compassion released him, and the debt he forgave him.

28 And that servant having come forth, found one of his fellow-servants who was owing him one hundred denarii, and having laid hold, he took him by the throat, saying, Pay me that which you owe.

29 His fellow-servant then, having fallen down at his feet, was calling on him, saying, Have patience with me, and I will pay you all;

30 and he would not, but having gone away, he cast him into prison, until he might pay that which was owing.

31 And his fellow-servants having seen the things that were done, were grieved exceedingly, and having come, showed fully to their lord all the things that were done;

32 then having called him, his lord says to him, Evil servant! All that debt I forgave you, seeing you called on me,

33 did it not seem necessary to you to have dealt kindly with your fellow servant, as I also dealt kindly with you?

34 And having been angry, his lord delivered him to the inquisitors, until he might pay all that was owing to him;

35 so also My heavenly Father will do to you, if you may not forgive each one his brother from your hearts their trespasses.”

 

If you have been deeply wounded, hurt, manipulated, oppressed, or worse by another person, Peter’s query of forgiving up to seven times seems very generous. How many times does God expect one to “put up with” a person who continues to transgress against them? Isn’t this actually dangerous in some cases?

As a quick aside, consider that forgiveness is NOT a feeling. Forgiving someone does NOT mean that one must put themselves at risk physically, mentally, emotionally, or financially. Forgiveness doesn’t mean you have to give the “weapon” back to the one who assaulted you. This fallacy of belief prevents a lot of people from truly forgiving, because it seems to ask too much. True forgiveness is choosing to release the debt another person owes you. It doesn’t erase what happened. It doesn’t condone their behavior or words. You don’t have to become bedfellows with your betrayer (or even have warm, fuzzy feelings about them), but you do have to forgive the debt they owe you. Let it go and entrust them to Adonai. This releases you from the “torturers,” which will be explained later in this post.

Seven, being the number of completion and rest, was a reasonable, and even a Biblical, deduction made by Peter in regards to forgiveness. But Messiah says something shocking to our human sensibilities in response – we are to forgive our brothers/sisters up to seven times seventy! Rather than this being a clever way of saying 490, Yeshua is hinting back to a story that involved brothers and unforgiveness. When we fail to forgive, we are actually going the “way of Cain.”[2]

 

Cain & Lamech

In Genesis 4, Cain was offended and hurt that Adonai accepted the offering of his brother Abel, but not his. It is noteworthy to point out that by faith Abel offered firstfruits, his best, which is a better sacrifice.[3]  Though Cain also made an offering, it was not from his firstfruits. He cared more about himself than his brother. Cain’s hurt turned into jealous anger towards his brother. Adonai warned him that he needed to master these emotions or sin would overtake him, and encouraged him that if he did well (in the future), it would go well with him too. But Cain did not listen. He didn’t “hear” the Word from Adonai and his anger resulted with the first murder in human history. Afterwards, Adonai asked Cain:

Genesis 4:9-10 (TLV) 9 “Where is Abel, your brother?” “I don’t know,” he said. “Am I my brother’s keeper?”10 Then He said, “What have you done? The voice of your brother’s blood is crying out to Me from the ground.”

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Rather than repenting for murdering his brother, Cain smugly replies, “Am I my brother’s keeper?” In the eyes of Adonai, yes, you are your brother’s keeper! In Hebrew, keeper is הֲשֹׁמֵ֥ר, ha-shomer, from shamar, a verb meaning to watch, to keep, to preserve, to guard, to be careful, to watch carefully over.

This is true for you and me too. We should keep, guard, and carefully watch over our brothers and sisters despite how we feel about them. What is most telling about the character of Adonai in this episode is that despite Cain’s unwillingness to repent, God still chooses to exercise long-suffering (patience) towards him. Even though Cain was only concerned about himself and only had remorse for the consequences/punishment of his actions, God protected him.

Genesis 4:13-15 (TLV) 13 Cain said to Adonai, “My iniquity is too great to bear! 14 Since You expelled me today from the face of the ground and I must be hidden from Your presence, then I will be a restless wanderer on the earth—anyone who finds me will kill me!” 15 But Adonai said to him, “In that case, anyone who kills Cain is to be avenged seven times over.” So Adonai put a mark on Cain, so that anyone who found him would not strike him down.

There are several ways the sevenfold vengeance is interpreted. Some suggest that this was a reference to seven generations, implying that the slayer of Cain should not only be punished in his own person, but in his posterity, even unto seven generations (Targum Onkelos). Others like Rashi and Ibn Ezra interpret it to mean that God deferred his vengeance on Cain unto seven generations, and at the end of them took vengeance on him by Lamech (Gill).[4] Whichever way one views it, in the seventh generation, Cain’s grandson Lamech says something interesting:

Genesis 4:23-24 (JPS) 23 And Lamech said unto his wives: Adah and Zillah, hear my voice; ye wives of Lamech, hearken unto my speech; for I have slain a man for wounding me, and a young man for bruising me; 24 If Cain shall be avenged sevenfold, truly Lamech seventy and sevenfold.

The phrase seventy and sevenfold is what Messiah said in Matthew 18, but the difference is striking. While Cain and Lamech demonstrated lack of concern for those whom they had wounded or killed, were never noted as being repentant, and were very “I” centered, Yeshua used these same numbers to highlight patience and radical forgiveness towards one that has transgressed. Instead of sevenfold vengeance or vindication, one lays down this right to bring about something far more profound: repentance.

“Or do you think lightly of the riches of His kindness and tolerance and patience, not knowing that the kindness of God leads you to repentance?” (Romans 2:4, NASB)

In this sense, Cain and Lamech represent the elder, firstborn (like Esau), who is one’s flesh (old nature or old man.) Flesh can never please Adonai, for the mind set on the flesh is death.[5] Knowing this, the chesed, mercy, and compassion of God reserves His wrath, and even immediate justice, because above all, His desire is for no one to perish.[6]

In the parable in Matthew 18, the “King” has compassion upon the servant when he pleads for “patience,” which is longsuffering. He forgives a debt so enormous that the man would never have been able to repay it in his lifetime. Instead of expressing gratitude through the trait of chesed (lovingkindness given to one who doesn’t deserve it), the man immediately finds a fellow slave who owes him a tiny debt and grabs him by the throat demanding repayment.

If we think we aren’t just like 
this servant, we are lying to ourselves.

Shepherd

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The role of “shepherd” might not appear to be connected to these stories at first glance. But recall that Abel was a shepherd and Yeshua’s hint back to Genesis 4 would have been apparent to a first century hearer. Perhaps this is why Yeshua prefaces the command to forgive one’s brother and the parable of the unforgiving servant with a message about shepherding:

Matthew 18:10-14 (NASB) 10 “See that you do not despise one of these little ones, for I say to you that their angels in heaven continually see the face of My Father who is in heaven. 11 [For the Son of Man has come to save that which was lost.] 12 What do you think? If any man has a hundred sheep, and one of them has gone astray, does he not leave the ninety-nine on the mountains and go and search for the one that is straying? 13 If it turns out that he finds it, truly I say to you, he rejoices over it more than over the ninety-nine which have not gone astray. 14 So it is not the will of your Father who is in heaven that one of these little ones perish.”

A wayward sheep is one that has wandered off from the righteous Way, like Cain. While God certainly cares about the pain and devastation that we experience at the hands of others, He is also concerned with “finding” the perpetrators who have went astray. His will is for them to repent and be reconciled to Himself and the other sheep. When we are told to pray for our enemies, this should be our prayer for them too.[7] It is the heart of our King. We are not to “despise” one of these “little ones,” as Messiah, the Good Shepherd, calls them.

Matthew 5:43-48 (NASB) 43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I say to you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you. 45 so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for He causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. 46 For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 If you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? 48 Therefore you are to be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.”

This is not easily accomplished, and is impossible without the Spirit of the Living God residing in one’s heart. God knows this all too well. Longsuffering or patience means to “bear a burden.” It is a burden to bear the sins of others. It is afflicting to bear the emotional weight of our own pain. But this is precisely what Messiah did for us. And He tells us: “If anyone wishes to come after Me, he must deny himself, and take up his cross and follow Me (Mt. 16:24).

According to 1 Corinthians 13:1-3, one can speak the tongue of angels, know all mysteries and knowledge, have faith to move mountains, give all of their money to the poor, willing give their body over to be burned, but if they don’t have love – all of it, even their faith, is useless. This passage goes on to list the attributes of love. The first listed trait is patience. I don’t think this is a coincidence.

Webster’s 1828 defines patience as “the suffering of afflictions, pain, toil, calamity, provocation or other evil, with a calm, unruffled temper; endurance without murmuring or fretfulness. The act or quality of waiting long for justice or expected good without discontent. The quality of bearing offenses and injuries without anger or revenge.”

Are these the traits of a good shepherd? I certainly see Yeshua the Messiah in each aspect![8] Many times I’ve witnessed people demean, condemn, shame, and harass other Believers for not believing, thinking or doing exactly what they do, and when confronted about their behavior, rather than repent, they say, “I’m just speaking the truth in love.” No. They aren’t. Love does not behave that way. Period. The phrase “speaking the truth in love,” comes from Ephesians 4:15. The context of that chapter is about unity in the Body and “growing up,” maturing and becoming like Messiah. It begins with:

Ephesians 4:1-3 (NASB) 1 Therefore I, the prisoner of the Lord, implore you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling with which you have been called, 2 with all humility and gentleness, with patience, showing tolerance for one another in love, 3 being diligent to preserve the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.

Ephesians 4 concludes with a few reminders about anger. “Be angry, but sin not.” The furious conduct I see on social media must make Adonai sick to His stomach (figuratively) as He continues to suffer on our wayward behalf. Most believers do not approach their fellowman with humility, gentleness, patience, or tolerance. Instead, they do what is right in their own eyes and seethe with anger, aggression, sarcasm, and passive aggressive behavior and say that they are “speaking the truth in love.” But their anger is dangerous. It has deluded many, and has its root in the way of Cain. Anger, according to verse 27, gives the enemy a “place” in our lives.

Ephesians 4:31-32 (NASB) 31 Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. 32 Be kind to one another, tender-hearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also has forgiven you.

The next time you feel the need to “speak the truth in love,” ask yourself if you can do so while also being kind, tender-hearted, and without bitterness, anger, clamor, and malice. If you are angry, have been hurt, or are bitter toward a particular group, denomination, sect, or person, you are part of the problem. The rotten fruit that comes forth causes more damage and gives the impression (because you are claiming to be and image bearer of Adonai) that He is like you – when He is NOT.

Yonah

Forgiveness is major theme in the Book of Jonah that is read during Yom Kippur. In many ways, the days of counting the omer mirror the days of repentance during the month of Elul and the High Holy Days. Have you ever wondered why Jonah is read on the holiest day of the year? Jonah means dove (the bird), a figure of the Holy Spirit and carrying the Seed of the Good News.

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But Yom Kippur is also the Day of Judgment. It reflects the question of day six of creation – are you a man (the image of Elohim) or are you a mere beast of the field (image of the beast)? Many think that Jonah is read on this day to represent a nation repenting, and it is. But there is a deeper reason that relates directly to the parable of the unforgiving servant and even the stories of Cain and Lamech. Though Jonah knew what He was called to do, he didn’t want to obey, because he despised the Ninevites. Nineveh was the capital city of Assyria – an aggressor of Israel and Judah. Jonah tried to run, but that landed him in the belly of a great fish. Jonah cried out the LORD in his distress and God delivered him; the fish vomited him out on dry land (a hint back to day 3).

Afterwards, Jonah reluctantly went and preached to Nineveh with great success. The people listened and repented, so God relented and didn’t destroy the city. Their repentance and God’s pardon infuriated Jonah. Even though he had enjoyed the mercy and grace of God, he resented it when God extended it to his enemies. The final chapter of Jonah is vital for every Believer to wrestle with – and every Yom Kippur we need to know if our heart is aligned with Adonai or has become like Jonah, who would rather die than see God show mercy and forgive one’s adversary.

Jonah 4:1-11 (NASB)

1 But it greatly displeased Jonah and he became angry.

2 He prayed to the LORD and said, “Please LORD, was not this what I said while I was still in my own country? Therefore in order to forestall this I fled to Tarshish, for I knew that You are a gracious and compassionate God, slow to anger and abundant in lovingkindness, and one who relents concerning calamity.

3 Therefore now, O LORD, please take my life from me, for death is better to me than life.”

4 The LORD said, “Do you have good reason to be angry?”

5 Then Jonah went out from the city and sat east of it. There he made a shelter for himself and sat under it in the shade until he could see what would happen in the city.

6 So the LORD God appointed a plant and it grew up over Jonah to be a shade over his head to deliver him from his discomfort. And Jonah was extremely happy about the plant.

7 But God appointed a worm when dawn came the next day and it attacked the plant and it withered.

8 When the sun came up God appointed a scorching east wind, and the sun beat down on Jonah’s head so that he became faint and begged with all his soul to die, saying, “Death is better to me than life.”

9 Then God said to Jonah, “Do you have good reason to be angry about the plant?” And he said, “I have good reason to be angry, even to death.”

10 Then the LORD said, “You had compassion on the plant for which you did not work and which you did not cause to grow, which came up overnight and perished overnight.

11 Should I not have compassion on Nineveh, the great city in which there are more than 120,000 persons who do not know the difference between their right and left hand, as well as many animals?”

Jonah understood God’s mercy and compassion – that’s why he didn’t want to go to Nineveh. He knew God would be gracious and forgiving if they repented. Even a successful prophet of Adonai can prefer death over life. Three times Jonah says this is his preference. Notice how many times anger is mentioned. Anger is an emotion of the soul/nephesh/flesh, and is NOT of the Spirit of Adonai. This makes Jonah’s name quite ironic. One who should typify the Ruach and Good News, chose death (the flesh).

“For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, [7] because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, [8] and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.” (Romans 8:6-8 NASB)

When we hold resentment, bitterness, grudges, and contempt against other human beings (even if they have deeply wounded us by unspeakable means), we are like Jonah, Cain, and Lamech. Jonah wanted to sit back and watch Nineveh burn to the ground. Isn’t that often our desire towards our enemies? He even built himself a sukkah in hopes that Adonai would change His mind and smite them all. A true sukkah is a covering akin to love; it conceals the sins and faults of others and brings reconciliation and unity. Rather than having compassion for those who “know not what they are doing,” Jonah was more upset over a plant dying because it gave him physical comfort.

The Release

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What an awful prison Jonah made for himself. How many jail cells have we built and locked ourselves in? Humans are stubborn. It’s easy to read these stories and see “their” problem. But can we see that these examples were written for our own correction (mussar)? That we embody their selfish, ungrateful, and self-righteous attitudes? I recently listened to a Bema podcast with Marty Solomon and Brent Billings called “The Key to Your Own Prison.” Near the forty-two minute mark, they point out a nuance with the Greek pronouns of the following verse in Matthew 18:

“And his lord, moved with anger, handed him over to the torturers until he should repay all that was owed him.” (Matthew 18:34, NASB)

Did the King who was compassionate and gracious revoke His forgiveness? Does God go back on His Word? Did he forgive an insurmountable debt and then change His mind and have “torturers” wring every last cent from the first slave? If so, that’s a terrifying god. And yet, that’s how most of us read the story, because the truth is that this IS something we would do to, and desire for, someone who was ungrateful for our kindness. But the Greek showcases another possibility that does not compromise the nature of Adonai. What if (and the Greek easily allows this) the Lord handed the first slave over to the torturers until he repaid all that the second slave owed him?

In other words, what if the King required the first slave to be “tortured” until he forgave the second slave’s debt? The next verse implies this too: “My heavenly Father will also do the same to you, if each of you does not forgive his brother from your heart.” When we are in a state of unforgiveness, who is imprisoned? Who is tortured, embittered, and in turmoil? The one we haven’t forgiven, or us? Marty Solomon said we are “given the key to our own prison,” but will we use the key (forgiveness)?

The word “torturers” conjures visions of the Greek god Hades and his hellhound Cerberus. But the Greek word actually means a prison keeper or jailer. Unforgiveness is a jailer, and forgiveness opens the door to the cell. God is not fickle or sadistic. He is not Hades. His attributes of mercy haven’t changed. The main reason we struggle so much with forgiving with the willingness of our Master is because we are afraid. We fear that our oppressor or aggressor is not going to get what they deserve (Jonah).[9] We are afraid that our pain doesn’t matter to God, but it does. We hurt so bad that we no longer can see the “other” as human. We deem them unworthy of God’s grace (the height of haughtiness, which blinds us to the truth).

But those are all feelings. Fear is a liar. The truth is that Adonai will not let the guilty go unpunished. But that punishment will be perfect. It will not be too little or too much. His justice is righteous. It is precisely middah keneged middah – measure for measure. Thus, we can freely forgive, have patience and compassion, and entrust them to Adonai.

Exodus 34:6-7 (TLV) 6 Then Adonai passed before him, and proclaimed, “Adonai, Adonai, the compassionate and gracious God, slow to anger, and abundant in lovingkindness and truth, 7 showing mercy to a thousand generations, forgiving iniquity and transgression and sin, yet by no means leaving the guilty unpunished, but bringing the iniquity of the fathers upon the children, and upon the children’s children, to the third and fourth generation.”

Erekh Apayim

There are two Hebrew words that comprise the English word for longsuffering. Literally, it means a long nose (nostrils). This is an idiom for taking in a long deep breath. It is a pause, a refrain from the short pants and flaring nostrils that anger invokes. Physically, taking long deep breaths calms one’s heart rate, relieves stress, and can even alleviate anxiety. In the west, when we say, “I need a breather,” it refers to removing ourselves from a stressful situation so we don’t make a hasty decision born from anger, frustration, exhaustion, or panic. We need a break, a reset.

When the Bible refers to God as having a long nose or nostrils, it means that it takes a long time for Him to take in a breath. He is calm and patient with us, and that means He suffers on our account when we are wayward and obstinate. Breath is associated with life, not death.  God breathed the breath of life into the nostrils of man and he became a living soul. Adonai’s deep, longsuffering breath is also what allows our life to continue despite our wickedness, rebellion, and sin. Praise His Holy and Merciful Name! On the other hand, anger’s rapid, short breaths figures the opposite.

When being tested, try some deep breathing exercises to separate yourself from your emotions, and to realign yourself with the Spirit of God. Pray the Lord’s Prayer, which reminds us to forgive the debts and trespasses of others because Adonai has forgiven us. This also reminds one of our proper place and position before the King – that is a place of humility and submission.

Matthew 6:9-13 (NASB) 9 Pray, then, in this way: “Our Father who is in heaven, Hallowed be Your name. 10 Your kingdom come. Your will be done, On earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us this day our daily bread. 12 And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. 13 And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.”

In closing, I leave you with Graham Cooke, who has an excellent podcast episode on patience called “The Patience Advantage.” In it, he outlines patience as fruit that:

  • Guards us from negatives.
  • Acts as an entry point to encounter with God.
  • And is a critical component in walking from where we are today, into the outcomes God has planned for our tomorrows.

As you count the omer this year, may the leaven of unforgiveness be replaced with the New Grain, the New Bread that is our Messiah who was stripped, beaten, spit upon, mocked, and nailed to a tree, and instead of demanding justice or calling down fire from heaven upon the guilty, He said, “Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing.”

 

“Sooner or later all the people of the world will have to discover a way to live together in peace, and thereby transform this pending cosmic elegy into a creative psalm of brotherhood. If this is to be achieved, man must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love.”  Martin Luther King Jr. – Acceptance Speech, on the occasion of the award of the Nobel Peace Prize in Oslo, 10 December 1964


[1] https://biblehub.com/lsv/matthew/18.htm

[2] Jude 1 – read the attributes/traits/actions of those on this path.

[3] Firstfruits require faith because they are the first to come up from the ground or be birthed in the flock. There is no earthly guarantee of more to come. Hebrews 11:4 (NASB) By faith Abel offered to God a better sacrifice than Cain, through which he obtained the testimony that he was righteous, God testifying about his gifts, and through faith, though he is dead, he still speaks.

[4] https://www.biblestudytools.com/commentaries/gills-exposition-of-the-bible/genesis-4-15.html

[5] Romans 8:6-8 (NASB) For the mind set on the flesh is death, but the mind set on the Spirit is life and peace, [7] because the mind set on the flesh is hostile toward God; for it does not subject itself to the law of God, for it is not even able to do so, [8] and those who are in the flesh cannot please God.

[6] John 3:16 (NASB) “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.”

[7] See also Luke 6:27-36.

[8] As a contrast, review the actions of wicked shepherds and “fat” selfish sheep in Ezekiel 34.

[9] Later, Nineveh reverted to their wayward ways and God destroyed the city. It wasn’t in Jonah’s timing, but according to the Sovereign King of Universe and the future actions of the Assyrians.

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Oil For Chanukah

In 2022, Chanukah begins on the evening of December 18, and ends the evening of December 26.

There is so much prophecy surrounding the Chanukah story! “The abomination of desolation” that Yeshua spoke of in Matthew 24 comes directly from Daniel’s prophecies that were fulfilled in the days of the Maccabees. Since prophecy is cyclical, with greater and lesser fulfillments, understanding the Chanukah story (and Purim for that matter) is critical to understanding the things that unfold in the Book of Revelation and the latter days. These stories give a blueprint of what the spirit of antichrist seeks to do and how he goes about accomplishing his will. But even more importantly, these accounts describe the righteous acts of the saints and how to be an overcomer.

What is the history of Chanukah? Is Chanukah Biblical? Should we avoid using the eight branched Chanukiah? Is Chanukah pagan? Does the Torah allude to Chanukah? Is observing Chanukah “adding to the Torah”? Is Chanukah an important commemoration? Did Yeshua keep Chanukah or speak about the Maccabees?

Use the guide below to read the accounts and decide for yourself. Rather than writing a teaching article, the following pdf requires one to study. Our minds are much more likely to retain information if we have sought the answers out through discovery. A lot of the study texts and questions either directly or indirectly relate to some of the most common objections to celebrating Chanukah. Others ask you to read the history of Chanukah, examples of dedication, or prophecy. At the end, there are some seasonal Psalms, blessings, and the lyrics to the song, Rock of Ages.

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Oil For Chanukah

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